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We understand how confusing it can be to find a lawyer who gets you and keeps your best interests first. At Zeidman & Carpenter, we listen first—understanding your situation and guiding you to the best legal options. Whether you need a lawyer or just the right advice, we’ll give you honest answers, not pressure.
Mediation divorce relies on a trained, neutral mediator to guide discussions between both spouses. Unlike litigation, where attorneys advocate for individual clients, the mediator facilitates productive conversations, ensuring both parties express their concerns and work toward a mutually acceptable resolution. The focus is on fairness, transparency, and minimizing conflict.
Every couple’s situation is unique, and mediation allows for flexible, customized agreements tailored to their specific needs. Whether discussing child custody arrangements, asset division, or spousal support, mediation encourages creative problem-solving—ensuring both parties walk away with an agreement that works best for their future.
Mediation is often significantly faster and more affordable than traditional divorce litigation. By avoiding lengthy court battles, couples save time, reduce legal expenses, and maintain greater control over their divorce process. This streamlined approach helps spouses move forward with minimal financial and emotional stress.
Unlike public courtroom proceedings, mediation is a private process that protects sensitive family matters from public record. This allows both parties to have open, honest discussions without the pressure of a courtroom setting. By fostering a cooperative environment, mediation reduces hostility, making co-parenting and post-divorce communication smoother.
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“I had the privilege of working with Lee Zeidman at Zeidman & Carpenter PLLC for my divorce proceedings, and he exceeded all expectations. From beginning to end, Lee was professional and knowledgeable. He demonstrated exceptional responsiveness and timeliness. He guided me through every step, making the process less intimidating. His foresight in anticipating challenges and advising me was instrumental in navigating the complexities of divorce. His attention to detail and thoroughness in explaining documents underscored his commitment to superb service. My case wasn’t simple, but he did a great job negotiating my settlement. I am very happy with the outcome. He truly is an incredible attorney. I highly recommend him!”

Mediation Divorce Law Questions, Answered
Answers to clarify cost, time, outcome and strategy to help you make the right decision for your situation.
We provide dedicated legal support for individuals navigating divorce, ensuring a smooth process while protecting your rights and interests. Whether you're facing a contested or uncontested divorce, no-fault or at-fault divorce, mediated or collaborative divorce, we offer strategic legal guidance tailored to your situation. Our goal is to help you achieve a fair resolution, whether it involves asset division, child custody, spousal support, or post-divorce modifications. With a focus on clear legal solutions, personalized strategies, and strong advocacy, we help you move forward with confidence and peace of mind.
We believe in transparent pricing with no hidden fees or surprises. Our fee structure depends on the complexity of your case and the legal services you need. Here’s how we typically charge:
Flat Fees – For straightforward services like uncontested divorce filings, prenuptial agreements, and legal document preparation, we offer clear, upfront pricing so you know exactly what to expect.
Hourly Rates – For more complex cases, such as contested divorces, child custody disputes, or alimony negotiations, we charge competitive hourly rates with detailed billing transparency.
Retainer – For ongoing legal representation, we require an initial retainer that covers case preparation, court filings, and strategy sessions. We provide regular case updates so you always know where your investment is going.
Payment Plans – Available when applicable, depending on the nature of your case.
The divorce law process varies depending on the case type, but most follow these general steps:
Consultation & Case Evaluation – Meet with a divorce attorney to discuss your situation, legal options, and best strategy for moving forward.
Filing Legal Documents – Submit a divorce petition and any necessary motions to officially initiate the case.
Service of Process – The divorce papers are formally served to the other spouse, giving them time to respond.
Response & Negotiation – The other party may agree, contest, or negotiate terms such as asset division, child custody, and spousal support.
Mediation or Court Hearings – Many divorce cases require mediation to reach an agreement before going to court; if mediation fails, a judge may decide.
Discovery & Evidence Gathering – Both sides exchange financial records, property valuations, custody evaluations, and other necessary evidence.
Final Settlement or Trial – If both spouses agree, a final divorce agreement is signed and approved by the court. If not, the case proceeds to trial, where a judge makes the final decision.
Court Order or Judgment Issued – The judge finalizes the divorce by issuing a decree covering property division, custody, support, and other legal matters.
Post-Judgment Modifications (If Needed) – If circumstances change (e.g., income changes affecting child or spousal support), you may file for modifications.
Choosing the right attorney can make all the difference in your case. We're here to make your life easier, not harder.
Proven Legal Strategies – We take a results-driven approach, crafting solutions that align with your goals.
Transparent Pricing & No Hidden Fees – You’ll know exactly what to expect from day one.
Personalized Attention – Your case won’t be handed off—you’ll work directly with an experienced attorney.
Clear Communication & Case Updates – No waiting for answers—we keep you informed every step of the way.
Aggressive When Needed, Strategic Always – We fight for the best possible outcome, whether in negotiations or court.
During your free divorce consultation, we provide a clear, step-by-step legal roadmap based on your unique situation. Whether you're facing a contested or uncontested divorce, asset division, child custody, or spousal support, our roadmap is designed to give you clarity, eliminate surprises, and provide a structured plan so you know exactly what comes next. Our goal is to guide you through the process efficiently while protecting your rights and securing the best possible outcome.
To make the most of your free consultation, we’ll need some key details about your situation. This helps us provide you with accurate legal guidance and a clear roadmap for your next steps. Here’s what to have ready:
Basic Personal & Case Information – Full name, contact details, and a brief summary of your divorce case.
Relevant Documents – Marriage certificates, prenuptial or postnuptial agreements, financial records, property deeds, and any legal agreements related to your marriage.
Your Goals & Concerns – Custody preferences, spousal support concerns, division of assets and debts, and desired outcomes.
Key Dates & Deadlines – Date of marriage, separation date, upcoming court dates, and any relevant deadlines.
Questions You Have – Any concerns you’d like addressed to help you gain clarity on your divorce case and next steps.
The length of a family law case depends on the complexity of the issue, court schedules, and whether both parties agree on terms. Here’s a general breakdown:
Uncontested Divorce – 3 to 6 months, depending on state laws and mandatory waiting periods.
Contested Divorce – 6 months to 2+ years, especially if disputes over assets, child custody, or spousal support require litigation.
Mediated Divorce – 3 to 6 months, depending on how quickly both parties reach an agreement through mediation.
Collaborative Divorce – 6 months to 1+ year, as it requires negotiations and legal cooperation without going to trial.
At-Fault Divorce – 6 months to 2+ years, depending on whether fault-based claims (such as adultery or cruelty) lead to additional court proceedings.
No-Fault Divorce – 3 to 12 months, varying by state laws and whether both parties fully cooperate.
Every legal case is unique, and while we fight for the best possible outcome, no attorney can guarantee a specific result. However, here’s what you can expect when working with us:
Clear Expectations Upfront – Honest assessment of your case, outlining potential outcomes and risks.
A Strong Legal Strategy – Customized legal plan to protect your rights and maximize success.
Negotiation & Litigation Expertise – Proven strategies to advocate for your best interests in and out of court.
Transparent Communication – Regular updates so you’re never left wondering what’s next.
A Focus on Long-Term Solutions – We aim for lasting resolutions, not just quick fixes.
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Our Mediative Divorce Law Legal Process:
From Start to Winning Outcomes
We make the divorce process clear, structured, and stress-free. Whether you're navigating a contested or uncontested divorce, child custody arrangements, asset division, or spousal support, we guide you through every step to protect your rights and secure the best possible outcome.
- Strategic Consultation & Case Evaluation
- Legal Filing and Documentation
- Mediation Sessions & Negotiation
- Agreement Drafting & Legal Review
- Filing & Court Approval

Mediation begins with a confidential consultation to understand both spouses’ goals, concerns, and priorities. Instead of adversarial legal tactics, we focus on a cooperative approach, helping both parties gain clarity on their rights, responsibilities, and potential solutions. Our mediator ensures that both individuals are heard and that the process remains fair, structured, and solution-focused to create a pathway toward resolution.
Mediation requires full transparency. We assist in gathering and organizing financial records, property details, parenting agreements, and other relevant documents to support open discussions. Our structured approach ensures that all paperwork—such as divorce petitions, financial disclosures, and custody agreements—is legally sound, protecting both parties and keeping the mediation process moving efficiently.
Mediation sessions serve as a neutral and guided space where both spouses work toward agreements on key issues, such as asset division, child custody, and financial support. Our mediator facilitates discussions with a problem-solving mindset, ensuring that each party’s needs and concerns are acknowledged. The focus is on reaching equitable solutions while minimizing conflict and emotional stress.
Once agreements are reached, we draft a Mediated Settlement Agreement (MSA) that outlines all mutually decided terms. Each party has the opportunity to review it with independent legal counsel before finalization. Once both spouses approve, the agreement is submitted to the court for approval—ensuring a legally binding resolution without the need for litigation.
Once both parties have reached a mutually acceptable agreement through mediation, we prepare and finalize the Mediated Settlement Agreement (MSA). This document outlines all decisions related to property division, child custody, support arrangements, and other key aspects of the divorce.After final review and approval by both spouses, we submit the agreement to the court for final approval. Since mediation is a voluntary and cooperative process, courts typically approve mediated agreements without the need for lengthy hearings or litigation. This ensures a faster, smoother, and less stressful divorce process, allowing both parties to move forward with clarity and peace of mind.
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